Comments on: First Trimester Miscarriage – A Burst of Love

By: plussizebirth

plussizebirth — Thu, 16 Oct 2014 03:17:27 +0000

In reply to Erin Surbaugh. Oh Erin my heart aches for all your losses. Sending you love.

By: Erin Surbaugh

Erin Surbaugh — Thu, 16 Oct 2014 03:14:19 +0000

I am 1 in 4. I have miscarried 6 times. At 19 weeks I delivered my twins after their water broke. My 3 baby in that pregnancy was not in the same sac and the doctors were able to stop my labor …..my first was born 3 weeks late at 43 weeks. After that I have also has a sweet baby girl. They are both rainbow babies

By: plussizebirth

plussizebirth — Tue, 14 Oct 2014 23:31:33 +0000

In reply to Nina. Many of us share your same fear Nina ((hugs))

By: Nina

Nina — Tue, 14 Oct 2014 23:28:59 +0000

I am 1 in 4. Lost my first baby in 2009 and didn’t want to try for another until June of 2013. Haven’t had any luck and I’m wondering if it will ever happen…thank you for sharing your story. I’m so very glad I found this site. It’s nice to know I’m not alone…

By: plussizebirth

plussizebirth — Tue, 14 Oct 2014 21:12:20 +0000

In reply to Kerry. Kerry I'm terribly sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story.

By: Kerry

Kerry — Tue, 14 Oct 2014 19:05:16 +0000

I became 1 of 4 January 2014. Went in for the first ultrasound expecting to be told baby was doing good and had strong heart beat. The heart beat wasn’t detected at the doctor office or at radiology department at our hospital. 8 weeks along but it wasn’t meant to be. Had a D&C with suction on the 10th while my oldest was in the hospital sick with high fever and a severe virus. The baby would have been our third child. I am happy to say that even though that loss is a child I’ll never hold in my arms they’ll always be in our hearts, and I’m now 16 weeks along with our 4th child and so far all is well. I say 4th because as I feel, baby #3, I lost but will never be forgotten and with God’s grace I’ll see them one day.

By: Alycia Havard

Alycia Havard — Sun, 04 May 2014 21:40:49 +0000

I’m 1 in 4. I just lost what would have been my 3rd child this year in January. I was 8 weeks a long and went in after just finding out a week earlier, and found out there was no heartbeat. My heart was broken. After I had my daughter 3 years earlier via c section the drs didn’t sew me up correctly. I had internal bleeding and had a few procedures done without doing another surgery that the dr told me we may not be able to get pregnant again. I was not thinking about having more since I had just had my daughter. 3 years later I thought it was incredible I was pregnant again. It was devastating to find out there was no heartbeat and then I had to have it removed since it did not come out on its own. I didn’t want to but I knew I couldn’t wait around with this baby inside and no heart beat. I still beat myself over it because I wish I would have waited another 2 weeks to see if the heartbeat would come. I knew it wouldn’t but I still think about it.

By: plussizebirth

plussizebirth — Wed, 02 Apr 2014 02:25:51 +0000

In reply to joy. I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss Joy.

By: joy

joy — Wed, 02 Apr 2014 02:24:58 +0000

I lost my son in my third trimester 4 years ago on march 26 an lay him to rest on april 14. It get so hard around this. I be so depress but god has bless me with 3bboys since than one that’s was born feb 2014 but i still wonder wat it would be likewith him here

By: Jess

Jess — Tue, 01 Apr 2014 09:54:51 +0000

::Hugs::

I hate that women have to go through this. After trying for 2 years, we finally got pregnant with our first – only to have it end with a blighted ovum at 8 weeks. My husbands job is horrible and wouldn’t let him have time off to go with me to doctors visits, so I took my mom. She still refers to it as “that time you thought you were pregnant” because the empty sac “didn’t look like a baby to me”. It hurts me that she doesn’t recognize my first conceived child as a loss, but it just hurt more every time I tried yet again to explain it to her..