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Mom Approved Plus Size Nursing Pillows

Breastfeeding is the most natural act between mother and baby and yet it's not always the easiest. Tools like plus size nursing pillows and support like an IBCLC can make a BIG impact. Below you'll see plus size mom-approved extra-large nursing pillow options, including the large Boppy Pillow, and tips for free and inexpensive options.

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plus size mom using a plus size nursing pillow to breastfeeding her baby

Best Extra Large Nursing Pillow For Plus Size Moms

1. Large Boppy Pillow

Are there different size boppy pillows? The answer is YES! 

While the original Boppy design is one of the most popular on the market, it's not very size friendly. So, are there different size Boppy Pillows? The answer is yes and this large Boppy Pillow is a plus size mom favorite! 

This new XL Boppy Pillow, Boppy Best Latch, is a redesign and it is size friendly! Due to this new design, Boppy has made our list of the best nursing pillow for plus size moms.

This extra large nursing pillow comes with a removable and adjustable belt up to 52 inches (but you don't need to use it).

The pillow is soft on one side and firm on the other so you can decide what works best for you and your nursing needs.

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2. Breastfriend Pillow Plus Size Nursing Pillow

This is a popular plus size nursing pillow (be sure to select the “twin” pillow because that is their plus size option). This Breastfriend Pillow offers back support!! It also has the unique feature of a storage pocket. This is a helpful place to tuck your water bottle, nipple cream, and cell phone.

My Brest Friend plus size pillow

3. Large Ergo Nursing Pillow

Ergo Breastfeeding Pillow

The ErgoBaby Nursing Pillow is designed to fit moms of many sizes. It easily works for moms all the way up to a size 24/26 (and possibly beyond depending upon your weight distribution). The ergonomic curve design brings your baby close to your body. Out of all of the plus size nursing pillows listed here, it's also the firmest.

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4. Medela Maternity Pillow and Breastfeeding Nursing Pillow

If you're looking for an extra-large nursing pillow this is a great option because it fits people of all sizes with the unique design. This big V nursing pillow holds its shape for many years and will become a great pillow for family snuggles long after your breastfeeding journey has come to an end.

Plus, it doubles as a maternity sleep pillow during pregnancy!

Bonus! Adjustable Height Breastfeeding Pillow

Think outside the box with this adjustable height breastfeeding pillow that works well for plus size parents.

If you're at all concerned about the traditionally shaped nursing pillows not working for larger bodies, this pillow is a great alternative. It allows you to easily adjust the height you need to comfortably breastfeed or bottlefeed. 

With mixed reviews, this pillow isn't for everyone, but it just might be what you've been searching for to support your feeding needs. 

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Free or Inexpensive Plus Size Breastfeeding Pillow And Extra Large Nursing Pillow Options

Extra Large Nursing Pillow AKA A Regular Pillow!

While fancy plus size nursing pillows are nice to have, they sure aren't a necessity. You can simply use your own pillows or buy inexpensive body pillows at stores like Ross or Target. Just be sure to keep plenty of clean pillowcases handy.

Ask a Friend

Do a posting on Facebook or reach out to your local mommy friends and see if anyone has an extra nursing pillow or is no longer using theirs. You might end up with a $50 pillow in exchange for a hug!

Consignment Stores

Baby consignment stores are not only a great place to shop for gently used baby clothes but also nursing pillows. You can often find the older Boppy design and while they are usually too snug for larger bodies, they can be stretched out. During pregnancy, you can sit in a chair or on the couch (prop up those feet) and place the pillow on your lap. Use the pillow as a nice prop for your favorite pregnancy book!* Over time the Boppy will stretch out. Or you might be lucky enough to snag one of these plus size nursing pillows that we highly recommend listed above.

Whether you get a nursing pillow from a friend or consignment store, most of them have a slip-cover that can be easily removed and then washed in your favorite fragrance-free laundry soap like Charlie's Soap.

You'll find your plus size nursing pillows will become a book, snack, and laptop prop long after you're done nursing!

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Tuesday 27th of July 2021

Thank you so much for this blog! It wasn't until I got pregnant that I found out how little there is for plus size women! This has been such a wonderful recourse of information I didn't even know I needed and some I did. Again, thank you!


Tuesday 27th of July 2021

You're so welcome and I'm wishing you all the best!!!