I’m going to be honest when I first saw SueAnne’s photo posted on a plus size babywearing forum I wanted to contact her right away to share the image. I paused though, thinking she probably didn’t have any idea who I was and didn’t want some random blogger bugging her. To my great surprise, she messaged me!
Hi Jen! I know you do alot of plus size babywearing articles. I just wanted to let you know I took the plunge and got babywearing pictures done. I’m a size 32/34 and wear my Tula every day! I would love for these to help other plus size mommas feel comfortable in knowing that they can babywear!
I was so excited and it turns out she has been following my blog for a few years. I did a little Q&A with SueAnne to chat about how to embrace babywearing as a plus size mom!
SueAnne you shared with me that this cutie, your 3rd child, is the first you’ve ever worn. What stopped you from babywearing with your first two?
I have 2 girls, and my 3rd is a boy. Honestly, I was scared and too self-conscious of my body with my first 2. I was scared that nothing would fit me. I was scared and nervous about what people would think about me, the “fat” girl babywearing. As a large woman, I am very self-conscious as it is. So I let my fear of other people’s opinions get in the way. I did wear my 2nd daughter in a sleepy wrap a few times, but only while home, never out and about.
How did you find the perfect carrier for your curvy body?
How did I find the perfect carrier for my body? I researched A LOT. I knew I wanted to babywear with him and that is would be a big investment for me. I joined every online group and asked a ton of questions. I pretty much researched my entire pregnancy. After a lot of consideration, I chose to take the plunge and ordered a Tula. I couldn’t be happier with the carrier I chose.
You said that babywearing has been the best thing you’ve ever done. Can you share a little about that?
Babywearing has been the best thing I have chosen to do because it allows me to bond with my son, in a way I wouldn’t be able to without it. My goal was to breastfeed and I know what an amazing bond you create that way. However, I was diagnosed with IGT (insufficient glandular tissue) and even though we pushed through for 4 months with breastfeeding and supplementing, my heart was broken.
Babywearing him has given me so much comfort and joy. Our Tula is both his and my own happy place. He will be one year old in 2 weeks and I started wearing him (in the Tula) at 2 weeks old. So we’re coming up on our 1-year babywearing anniversary! He will beg for the Tula, and usually, within 10 minutes of being in it, he’s out cold in a deep sleep! I seriously wear him every single day.
What suggestion do you have for a plus size mom-to-be or mom who is interested in babywearing but fearful nothing will fit?
My advice for fellow plus size moms or soon to be moms is to do your research! Read every blog you can about plus size babywearing, join Facebook groups, try to see if you have a local store that sells the one you’re interested in so you can try them on before you buy them. Also, ASK questions, don’t be afraid! Last but not least, EMBRACE babywearing! EMBRACE your baby! EMBRACE yourself! Don’t let your fear stop you from doing this for yourself and for your child. The truth is people will talk, the majority of comments I have gotten are positive, but there have been a few rude ones. I let the rude one roll off my back, because all I have to do is look down at my smiley baby and know that I am doing what is best for us, and that is all that matters.
Photos by, Michelle Frankel
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